7 Amazing Tips to Capture Japanese Girls’ Heart in Nomikai!

7 Amazing Tips to Capture Japanese Girls’ Heart in Nomikai!

“Nomikai” has an important social function in Japanese society. We organize “nomikai” with colleagues or with school friends to get to know them better while drinking alcoholic drinks. In fact, many Japanese men consider it as a great opportunity to ask the girl they are interested or meet someone special. If you are looking for a Japanese girlfriend, Nomikai would be a great place to find one! Today I will tell you 7 tips to succeed in capturing Japanese girls’ heart during Nomikai.



 

7 Amazing Tips to Capture Japanese Girls’ Heart in Nomikai!

 

1. Wear clean clothes

Because nomikai is a casual party, you don’t necessarily have to dress up. It is, however, important to wear clean clothes to impress Japanese girls. Most Japanese girls are very sensitive to personal hygiene. When a guy wears something dirty or smelly, they automatically reject him. Particularly if a nomikai is organized in Japanese style restaurant or izakaya (pub) where you need to take off your shoes, make sure to wear clean and matching socks with no holes.

 

2. Lead the girls with confidence

Japanese girls are less decisive than Western women in general. They usually let men decide where to go and what to do. In nomikai, men are basically in charge of making sure everything goes well. Therefore you can lead girls by asking them what they want to drink or eat, then order for them. If you can show them that they are rely on you, your stock will go up!

 

3. Talk to everyone

Even how much you want to talk to the girl you are interested in nomikai, it is important that everyone enjoys in nomikai. Pretty girls usually get lot of attention from men. Not good looking girls, on the other hand, might feel left out if men only talk to pretty girls.Therefore if you see a girl who doesn’t seem having fun, take an initiative to talk to her. Girls will talk good things about you! And you know girls talk a lot.

 

4. Do not talk to the girl you like right away

I have recommended not to talk to the girl you are interested right away in nomikai. There is another reason. As I have said earlier, pretty girls get a lot of attention from other guys. If you start talking to them right away, you will be one of those men. If you, instead, talk to other girls, a pretty girl might wonder why you aren’t interested in her. As a result, she will wish to know you more.

 

5. Don’t talk too much about yourself

When you are having a conversation with girls in nomikai, it is important not to talk too much about yourself. First, nobody likes a guy who brag about himself. Second, if you don’t reveal yourself too much, girls will be interested in knowing more about you. Think of nomikai as an opportunity to get to know more about the girl you like.

 

6. Talk about something private

It might be hard to talk something private, if you don’t know the girl well. If you already know this girl and you wish to get closer to her, it might be a good idea to talk something more private in nomikai, when you both will be more relaxed. Alcohol can help you with relaxing. If you show her that you will be on her side, she will open up to you on personal matter. That is a sign that you might be able to eventually date her.

 

7. Exchange numbers and IDs of “LINE”

Before nomikai ends, it’s important to exchange the number with the girl you are interested. Since everyone will be exchanging the number, it will not be so difficult to do. Adding that you should exchange IDs of “LINE” as well. “LINE” is one of the communication applications for smart phones such as Viber or Skype, which is recently becoming popular among Japanese people. So after nomikai finished and when you get home, you should send her a message, saying that you enjoyed the party and hope to get together again. That shows her that you are interested in her.

 

Conclusion

It is not easy to find a Japanese girlfriend because the Japanese culture is very different. Many Japanese men look for an opportunity to get close to the girl they like in nomikai. If you can give a good impression to girls in nomikai, you might have a chance to start a relationship with a Japanese girl.

 

7 Amazing Tips to Capture Japanese Girls’ Heart in Nomikai!

1. Wear clean clothes
2. Lead the girls with confidence
3. Talk to everyone
4. Do not talk to the girl you like right away
5. Don’t talk too much about yourself
6. Talk about something private
7. Exchange numbers and IDs of “LINE”