8 Ways to Piss Off Your Japanese Man

8 Ways to Piss Off Your Japanese Man

Building a good relationship with someone is not easy, especially with someone special. When we are seeing someone, it is unavoidable to have a fight. Every time we have a fight, we make up, so that is how we grow the relationship and bond with lovers. However, sometimes, tiny little thing causes break-up which is irreparable to get back together. Not to be that situation, what we can do is having consideration for your lover. Having consideration or caring about each other brings a stable and real relationship. Knowing that these things are important especially when we are in a serious relationship, we might upset girlfriends or boyfriends consciously or unconsciously. It could be difficult to sense what things get girlfriends or boyfriend pissed off especially when you are dating with person who has different cultural background from you because they might have different common sense which is unfamiliar to you.

This article is for the people who want to know about what things make Japanese men pissed off and make them uncomfortable. As a Japanese man, I would like to share 8 ways to piss off your Japanese man.



 

8 Ways to Piss Off Your Japanese Man

 

1. Excuses

The same can be said of other people as well as Japanese men, but making excuses should be avoided when you seeing a Japanese man. Precisely saying, you should avoid making excuses before you apologize. We tend to place importance on kind consideration or thoughtfulness. Excuse makes us unpleasant even if you tell the truth; accordingly you might want to make excuse moderately.

 

2. Strong and straightforward Expression about something

Have you ever heard that Japanese cannot say “No”? , which is not true. Though we say no when we want to, we tend to refrain from telling things directly because of our nationality. We regard humility as a virtue, so when you want to say things to your Japanese man, keep it in your mind and tell him indirectly; otherwise, you will piss off your boyfriend. It sounds like we are very sensitive, but not to worry. We are not like that sensitive.

 

3. Public Displays of Affection

There is not custom in japan to kiss or hug in public. Some of the reasons why we hesitate to displaying affection in public are that we are shy and we care too much about the public eye. Expressing of love is very important, but if you force your Japanese man to show love in public all the time, he will probably get tired of it.

 

4. Demand Him to be a Gentleman

Some people say Japanese men are not gentlemen compared with men from different countries. I have to say that we carry your baggage, open doors for you and we escort you during a date; however, I admit that we are not so much gentlemen as you want us to. We are not accustomed to act like gentleman, but it does not mean we treat you bad. So, do not demand too much your demand to be gentleman unless you want to piss him off.

 

5. Act against the Rules

We stick to the rules. We cherish the way of thinking of not causing trouble for other people. However, we mostly care about the public eye. So, we do not want to act against the rules. Otherwise, people think that we are crazy. If you act against the rules, it means that not only you who is embarrassed, but your Japanese man.

 

6. Not Punctual

If you are loose on time, you want to watch the time. It is considered normal to be punctual in Japan. Being punctual means gaining confidence in you. For some reasons, many Japanese are willing to stand in long line, but we do not like to wait for someone. When you have a date with Japanese man, make sure that you are on time.

 

7. Cannot read between the lines

Japan is society that values harmony. It is important to assert yourself, but in japan, we tend to align ourselves with the opinions of those around. We read between the lines from both good and bad aspects. If you keep insisting your opinion, it would be difficult to have a good relationship with your Japanese man.

 

8. Impose your values on him

Seeing Japanese man, you might feel cultural differences and it could cause fight or break up. These days, a lot of tourists are coming to japan but, japan is not a multiracial nation. For this reason, we have less opportunity to feel and see different cultural customs. It will take some time to adjust your cultural customs for us, so tell us slowly so that we can learn it at our own pace.

 

Conclusion

These are 8 ways to piss off your Japanese man. As you can see, Japanese have specific personality so, when you are seeing Japanese man, you should keep them in your mind and try not to piss him off or you can try the things that I shared in this article if you want to piss him off. I hope this article was useful information for you.

 

8 Ways to Piss Off Your Japanese Man

1. Excuses
2. Strong and straightforward Expression about something
3. Public Displays of Affection
4. Demand Him to be a Gentleman
5. Act against the Rules
6. Not Punctual
7. Cannot read between the lines
8. Impose your values on him